Learning from Death

A few nights back I had an interesting conversation with an ex of mine and one of the things we spoke about was the fear, blaming and asking question when someone dear has passed on instead of learning from the kind of life those people lived.

He argued that we focus so much on the pain that we loose perspective and thats not how he does it. One thing we forget as people we are not the same, we do not think the same and that there is a reason we are different, just because it doesn't make sense to you, does not mean that its wrong. There is an important part growth plays in our life and that grief we deal with it differently, so we must allow others to do so in their own way and step in when there is a need. I am not an expert in dealing with any type of grief but I know that there is a reason why there are steps to doing it because as humane as we are, our journey makes us who we are and helps in understanding and strengthening the self.