WHAT IS A CHANCE?
I am not here to explain what the title means, but rather to give you something to think about I hope.
Why is it so hard to trust someone after they have crossed you yet we claim to have forgiven them?
We FORGIVE yet we cannot FORGET, I believe it is a simple concept of TRUST. I have come to realize that it is very easy to go places with someone who has not yet given you any form of doubt towards their intentions especially when you have never experienced a form of pain.
I have written a piece on Forgiveness but what does it mean to FORGET and give someone a chance to REDEEM themselves?
When one decides to forget about what has been, it means not to bring it up again whenever the two parties have a fight they shall not blame the past on this new problem risen. Which brings us back to the hand of chance one should be able to look past what had happened in order to be completely sincere about it, we may be human but we blame our humanity too much on a lot of our own decisions. Human nature goes hand in hand with what it is you are feeding, as much as we can take decisions on starting a diet, staying on it and trying not to have cheat days and weeks, it all starts with one easy decision with yourself and that is to Lose Weight despite our desire to eat that chocolate cake that just appeared on the Checkers commercial.
There is one thing I have observed whenever we want to change our ways, temptation arises everywhere making it harder for you to achieve anything that you wanted, you give in because it is easy not because it is "your human nature"
CHANCE_ a possibility of something happening
That is how the dictionary explains the word chance and it is not wrong
I have been around long enough to understand that a chance is a decision taken by two people the victim and the assailant to each make the effort towards this found action. Trust has to be given freely but has to be earned as it was broken
We should not let ourselves be led by what people have done to us and just move on, we realize that not everyone in our lives deserve a second chance anyway. we may forgive them but letting them back in is not always an option and we only learn this the hard way. Yes we forget too but what is the point of a chance if you are only going to repeat your mistakes all over again? The point of a chance is to turn a new leaf make changes and who knows maybe something better than before can be achieved.
It is time to set yourself free from the world, Apologize, Forgive, Forget and Love these are some of what the bible asks of us and life requires us to practice in order for us to actually be able to change ourselves. We must also remember that forgetting forces us to put ourselves out there in the fire the point is not to get burnt but try to be careful at all times not everyone is a sheep others are just wolves in a sheep skin. What I am saying is that not everyone has your best interest at heart they are just coming back begging for a chance for their own benefit and are not being sincere at all, so learn the human traits and try to spot an imposter a mile away or else you will always be in trouble. It is in us especially women to believe that there is good in everyone wich is true but not everyone is feeding the good side most of us are just pretenders on the outside and inside have the face of the joker while you bend over backwards for us.
Why is it so hard to trust someone after they have crossed you yet we claim to have forgiven them?
We FORGIVE yet we cannot FORGET, I believe it is a simple concept of TRUST. I have come to realize that it is very easy to go places with someone who has not yet given you any form of doubt towards their intentions especially when you have never experienced a form of pain.
I have written a piece on Forgiveness but what does it mean to FORGET and give someone a chance to REDEEM themselves?
When one decides to forget about what has been, it means not to bring it up again whenever the two parties have a fight they shall not blame the past on this new problem risen. Which brings us back to the hand of chance one should be able to look past what had happened in order to be completely sincere about it, we may be human but we blame our humanity too much on a lot of our own decisions. Human nature goes hand in hand with what it is you are feeding, as much as we can take decisions on starting a diet, staying on it and trying not to have cheat days and weeks, it all starts with one easy decision with yourself and that is to Lose Weight despite our desire to eat that chocolate cake that just appeared on the Checkers commercial.
There is one thing I have observed whenever we want to change our ways, temptation arises everywhere making it harder for you to achieve anything that you wanted, you give in because it is easy not because it is "your human nature"
CHANCE_ a possibility of something happening
That is how the dictionary explains the word chance and it is not wrong
I have been around long enough to understand that a chance is a decision taken by two people the victim and the assailant to each make the effort towards this found action. Trust has to be given freely but has to be earned as it was broken
We should not let ourselves be led by what people have done to us and just move on, we realize that not everyone in our lives deserve a second chance anyway. we may forgive them but letting them back in is not always an option and we only learn this the hard way. Yes we forget too but what is the point of a chance if you are only going to repeat your mistakes all over again? The point of a chance is to turn a new leaf make changes and who knows maybe something better than before can be achieved.
It is time to set yourself free from the world, Apologize, Forgive, Forget and Love these are some of what the bible asks of us and life requires us to practice in order for us to actually be able to change ourselves. We must also remember that forgetting forces us to put ourselves out there in the fire the point is not to get burnt but try to be careful at all times not everyone is a sheep others are just wolves in a sheep skin. What I am saying is that not everyone has your best interest at heart they are just coming back begging for a chance for their own benefit and are not being sincere at all, so learn the human traits and try to spot an imposter a mile away or else you will always be in trouble. It is in us especially women to believe that there is good in everyone wich is true but not everyone is feeding the good side most of us are just pretenders on the outside and inside have the face of the joker while you bend over backwards for us.
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