My Voix My Way

“WHEN ONE DOOR CLOSES, ANOTHER OPENS; BUT WE OFTEN LOOK SO LONG AND REGRETFULLY UPON THE CLOSED DOOR THAT WE DO NOT SEE THE ONE WHICH HAS OPENED FOR US” We keep kneeling to the floor and asking God for forgiveness for our daily sins even before we commit them. We are human and we know that we commit one or two sins ones or twice a day that is why we try to prepare ourselves in prayer, but we do not have to act like there is nothing to it “GOD will forgive me” is what I always hear Christians say. “He is a forgiving GOD, he totally understand that wasn’t my fault and HE made me this way”. Why do we have to keep making excuses to justify our actions when three hour later we pray “God forgive us our sins as we forgive those who trespass against us” but we fail to forgive those who have done us wrong over and over again. We need to stop treating the bible like it’s a rule book but rather a sense of living for human kind to have peace with each other and prosper. God’s greatest gif...

I have been sitting here thinking about all the things i could write about but I cannot stop myself from erasing everything after ten to fifteen minutes. I believe most of u have had a situation where after a conversation you have had you think of all the intelligent things you could have said. I believe that most of us forget that listening is very important when conversations are involved . Listening is a skill which can only be used wisely if one really takes the effort. It is communication between one or two people that actually brings us closer to one another. It is through speaking and being heard that we are able to do right by others and ourselves. We are able to keep long friendship,relationships through communication which requires speaking,listening and replying. We are able to move forward from our pasts into the future when we apply that principle thoroughly. ............ TO BE CONTINUED   

I was home the other day and was tuned into the radio where they were speaking about an incident that had happened , which is turning out to be one of the rare incidents taking place in the age we live in. A man had lost his wallet in a taxi it seemed and one of the passengers saw it, picked it up and gave it to the taxi driver. The taxi driver,being a good citizen and having thought of everything the poor man could be going through , as the wallet included everything he could possibly need. The taxi driver used the wallet to lead him to the rightful owner. The man was indeed grateful for having his wallet returned to him as he did not have any hope of ever finding it. This story was interesting in the sense that one hardly hears of incidents where people have their lost belongings returned to them. I know that should I lose an important belonging such as a cellphone, it is unlikely that anybody would return it to the rightful owner. We live in a society and an era where it is okay f...

Perfect has absolutely nothing to do with your appearance or how good an actress you are when it comes to the person you really are. It is not even about how well everything is going for you but how proudly flawed you are. People or rather most of us strive for perfection forgetting that we also need to live life to the fullest and freely so,yes most of us choose to be conservative but we do it all fr the wrong reasons hoping that others will have nothing to say about us. We are not alive to satisfy others but rather to live it to our satisfactory yes some have a higher God that they please in order to live a more satisfactory life on earth for both parties. Growing up i thought that one has to live according to the bible,be obedient to your parents and every adult on earth,helpful and thoughtful to the feelings of other human beings. We as humans were not made to be perfect at all instead we were made to keep learning and rediscovering who and what we want to be and seen as. If w...

I am looking in the mirror but there is something different about the image staring back at me. One evening as i am looking in the mirror preparing myself for a night out with my friends,i saw a sad image staring back at me. The young girl is 20 years or older she has beautiful brown eyes,her innocence was beyond repair. It seems she was heartbroken,covered in tears,heart in tatters. She is lonely and bitter,covered in scars some she does not even recognize anymore,the only thing she seems to make head or tail of is her pain and shame. i stood there looking at this image or reflection and realized that i was staring at nothing but the truth. It was ME no matter how many times i stare into the mirror every day putting on that much make up it does not hide the real truth when all doors are locked. The girl in the mirror has lost sight of happiness,her self worth and the world to her is just a white paper that ink does not appear in no matter how many times you try to apply it. ...

After you have been hurt once most of us become wanderers on earth, we search for things or we just exist merely for one reason being to prove a point that THEY ARE THE SAME OR TO FIND SOMETHING WAY BETTER. In our quest of finding this "true love" some will either become desperate while others will reconstruct themselves, being the best of themselves.  As I am writing this I believe most of us have already been number one. We get to this stage when we would do anything to keep this person, we don't matter anymore instead all that is important is their happiness. When we do not hear from them everything else comes crushing down like a ball of fire. I have never been very pleasing until I thought I was in love only to realize that I was actually young and naïve. I lost myself, sight of what I actually want in life outside of the relationship. Every decision was made considering its effects on the relations. There is always that one thing that keeps you going, that...

It was during the month of December  and i was listening to BEGIN AGAIN BY TAYLOR SWIFT. There was something different about you,it was relaxing and your child-like behaviour brought out the kid in me waiting in anticipation to get out. There is something intriguing and fun about you. You act all care free,live in the moment but never forget to take responsibility for your actions. Although most of the time it is as if you do not care at all while you know deep down that you care the most. You love like a girl and act like a typical guy. there is something about you that keeps me on my toes i believe it is the fact that i know i cannot mess this one opportunity,what we have is something that struck like lightning flashing on a hot sunny day totally unexpected. You are a friend,advisor and sometimes psychologist but most of the time my motivator. I think about u and pain is never in the picture but rather laughter,teasing and happiness. Honestly i do not want to lose you but yo...