Freedom

This is one word that always gets people worked up about something. There's so much behind it and so many ways you can use it, its been in our lips and has been in those before our generation while others passed fighting for nothing but to see that very dream appear real.

I have been fighting for the freedom to do what I want whenever I want at whatever time and wherever I want since I discovered the reason to go out with my friends or whoever at night and enjoy myself and of course growing up in a family like mine where most adolescents would say they are strict I don't believe that they are but rather are just disciplinarians. Many have said that with age comes wisdom which explains the phenomenon of priority change, I stopped fighting about my freedom to go and do whatever I want because I already have that freedom when I am at school and there is  plenty to go around well of course there is a huge difference on the people I want to see and actually have a catch up session with but it is effective which is why when I am at home my most important motto is to keep the peace and make sure that I do not leave anyone unhappy.

We all know the feeling when you are out with your friends and suddenly right when you are supposed to leave(its curfew time), the fun starts and you are contemplating going home your heart says stay while your head says leave and then its time to knock some sense in yourself and decide what is more important. It has happened to me so many times that I would arrive home and wish I should have just stayed but then realize that the decision took at the time was for the best.

What I am trying to make you see is that whichever person you are going to meet will have a problem with the rules at your place but ask yourself if defying your family and causing a rift at home is really worth the pain you will be causing your family? I mean eventually there will be a time at home when they will allow you to do everything you want and it will feel great without the ducking and diving just remember that we meet friends and boyfriends almost everyday the right people will understand and will never make you feel bad about the situations you cant control

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